I Know What I Want

I can definitely say that I am addicted to the internet. Going through other’s blogs has made me think a lot of stuff. There are some really good inspirational blogs (like Ingrid's) out there. Reading these blogs really makes me think- why can’t I be more on the positive side? There’s no point in bragging about the past or trying to change what I can’t.

I am not alone in this world who is suffering. In fact there are millions of people in this world who are in a much deeper shit than me. So just crying about my own life is just being selfish, isn’t it?

Yeah, I am a little selfish. I never comment on other’s blogs unless I want them to visit mine. I post discussions on forums only to generate some traffic (and maybe that’s the reason why my topics suck).

Maybe the lack of friends in my life is the cause of my selfishness…

What would you choose- being selfish and lonely or being happy?


  1. hey, if beeing selfish serves me best then what's the problem?

  2. I'm going to have to agree with anonymous. There are lots of selfish people that are happy. There are also lots of very giving people who are not happy.

    I myself am pretty sure that I'd rather be alone than be addicted to people pleasing (far end of the spectrum I know, but it exists).

  3. Life is way too short. Happy is the way to be. Now, is being selfish makes you happy, then you are all set.

  4. irtiza,
    I prefer interation. It is really fun.
    It is my choice. It makes others feel good, of course I also feel good.
    wish you happy, healthy.

  5. Hi Irtiza,
    I don't think of you as selfish, since everyone wants their blog to be read, and also commented on. I see nothing wrong with that.

    There are many ways to bring your traffic up, such as SezWho and Entrecard...those are two good ones. Also there are others too, some better than others.

    Get a friend to Stumble one of your posts for you. Stumble you can get quite a bit of traffic. Links from friend's pages help too.
    Have a nice day,

  6. Selfish isnt always bad. I find myself doing the same thing that you stated commenting, forums, and such. I have cracked out of that now though. Great post about your opinions.